Thursday, April 17, 2014

The good, the bad and the ugly

Yup...that is life.  
The trick is to learn to keep your joy in the midst of it all.
Have I mentioned that I have tried and failed numerous times.
I have this awesome find the beautiful in the ugly.
Then the ugly happens and I turn into a a quivering mess.
I am disgusted in how quickly I cave.

I have to turn this around...and you all know hind sight is ALWAYS, ALWAYS 50/50.  So if I look back then I can see the beautiful in the bad and the ugly.  I can see how that which was meant for harm was turned into a blessing.

So lets start with the UGLY.  Ugly is when you are betrayed by people that you trusted.  Ugly is when the betrayer tries to drag your name through the mud. Ugly is when you find that people you trusted were dishonest and only intent on "what is in it for me".  Looking back on the hindsight...I know that our organisation had people in it's structure that were not supposed to be there.  Looking back I realize that the Lord was doing the shaking and the burning and was removing that which wasn't of Him.  Looking back we realize that some of our controls were not in place and it had to be done to prove our integrity and honesty. We realize that it is in times of the ugly that the true colours come out.  That you learn who are standing with you and who will keep you standing when you become weak.

Let's move on to the BAD.  Bad is when stress levels get so high that sleep goes out the window and appetites are lost. Bad is when the old forgotten Fibromyalgia pain starts creeping up on you like a bad memory.   Bad is when a loved one's  blood pressure spikes to 160/100 and you know that although he appears to be weathering the storm, his body is telling a different story.  Looking back on this we realize once again that it is the difficult things...the hard things that binds us together.  It is the hard things that keep us on our knees.  That keeps us humble before the Lord.  That knowledge that we aren't in control...only He is.

Ahhh...that brings me to the GOOD.  The good is that the Lord is in control of each and every situation in our life.  The good is that we can be intimately involved in the lives of our children.  The good is that He always provides...always heals...always loves.  A reminder that God is always God...and that God is always good.

This little man turned two.

A  little boy through and through

We are blessed.

I love this little freckle face.

We are blessed.

The Mission took occupation of the old Dutch Reform church....and we filled the building.
God is good...all the time.

...and for the first time ever...there was joyous singing and dancing in this beautiful building.

After all the drama we were able to take a week break at our favourite place.
...and enjoy the bounty our beautiful country provides.
Sunrise over the bay.

My attempt to capture the full moon before it went behind a cloud.

So in all things, the good, the bad and the ugly...we know that the Lord holds it all together.  We know that which man intends for evil...God turns into blessings.  We know that He works all things to the good of those who love Him.



  1. How does that saying go? Something along the lines of into each garden some rain must fall.

    I think you're doing great so no idea why you're disgusted with yourself?

    Love that moon pretty!

  2. aaaaah, thanks for the reminder that all things work together for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.

    I'm holding fast too but the end is near.

    I'm so glad you had recharge time in Plett!!!

  3. Despite all the bad and ugly, God gives us sprinkles of good to remind us that He is in our corner always!

  4. You are sooooooo right ... God is always good!!!! Loving the photos!!!

  5. The good the bad and the ugly - sounds just like the Friday that Jesus died, He was good, the crowd was bad and the cross was ugly, but without it we would not have hope... May you feel greater Love thie Easter...xx

  6. Thank you for the reminder that although there is bad and ugly in life that if we stand fast in God that the good will come!!!

    LOVE your photos and so happy that you got to have a week break in your favourite place to refresh your spirit and that K's blood pressure is back to normal.

  7. What a wonderful post! Beautiful photos & happy you had a break in such a gorgeous location. Great to have you back!

  8. Beautiful post. Have a great weekend!

  9. Amen. God is good! Thank you for sharing your bad times. I'm glad you were able to get away after the drama. And what a beautiful spot! I love the photos. Thank you for posting them. Have a very blessed Easter!

  10. Such meaningful post, thanks for sharing, and I love the precious little faces!

  11. Once again a wonderfully inspirational post. Thanks for the reminder that He is control xxx
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  12. Just like you, I keep learning that same lesson over and over. How wonderful it is to count your blessings. It always helps when you find the good in the bad and the ugly (and boy oh boy was it ugly). I'm so proud of you and love that you share your journey.

  13. So true....thanks for sharing your journey, the good & the bad! God is good!

  14. The good, the bad and the ugly will always be's just about where one places your focus! xx

  15. I'm so glad that you were able to get away for a few days and refresh yourself after all the bad and ugly. Thank goodness that the Lord is with us on our journey!

  16. As you said, He's in control - always. I'm sorry for the tough time you've been through, but its the refining process and that always makes us stronger.

    Big hugs to you

  17. Lynette, I am always amazed at how positive you always are.

  18. Lynette. Your post has perfect timing. Perfect. It is important to remember that God is good - especially, when things are not going so well. There is a bigger picture for which we do not understand and that is when we really need to follow our faith. Thank you for sharing this.

  19. Oh my friend what a beautiful beautiful post. One that I only noticed today in a very full reader and was meant precisely for me today

  20. Best post EVER. Thank You. I needed this read today. xx


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